Friday, April 23, 2010

6 MONTHS??? REALLY!!!

Can you believe it? It's been 6 months since we brought Jelly Bean home!! And oh my goodness how things have changed! Noah is a different child! Just a few examples of how our lives have changed!

Noah now...
  • goes to bed on his own now!
  • sleeps in his bed all night!
  • gets upset much less! When he does get upset, it's short lived!
  • doesn't bit his nails anymore! I can actually cut his fingernails again!
  • doesn't have the impulse to squeeze your ears off anymore!
  • is more independent!
  • plays more independently!
  • is more imaginative in his play!
  • is more social, especially at church!
  • And one of the most amazing things we've seen , one thing I never expected having a dog could change, Noah will eat a donut! That sounds so crazy, I know! But not only will he eat a donut...he eats it with his fingers!!! Before Jelly Bean, the only way Noah would even consider eating a donut was if you either cut it up and he used a fork or if you held it for him! That is a huge thing for him!! I never in a million years would have thought having a dog would help my child eat a donut!!

All these things don't sound like anything you would have ever thought a service dog could help! I never dreamed that Jelly Bean would rid Noah of some bad habits! The truth is, the reason those habits have disappeared is because Jelly Bean is keeping Noah comfortable! He's not suffering from anxiety anymore! Noah has become so much more secure in himself and his surroundings all because of a dog! Sensory issues are resolving, impulses are diminishing, fears are gone! All through our fundraising I kept telling people this dog will help Noah remain calm, minimize his meldowns, disrupt his behavior, keep him safe in public. But this dog, Jelly Bean, has done so much more! He's given Noah such freedom! Not freedom to walk across a parking lot not holding mommy's hand...a freedom to be who he is! Who he is on the inside! Behind all the fear, anxiety, and impulses. To be Noah! Getting a dog, gave me my child! And it gave my child a chance to live his life to the fullest! I never realized how much of Noah was hidden in fear! Thank you God for giving me this child to care for, to love! But thank you God for allowing him to love life freely!


I can't believe how wonderful this adventure has been! And it's only just begun! Our lives have changed so much! I thank everyone that helped make this dream come true for our family! We are so very blessed!

Randomness!

Just wanted to share some random pictures from the past 6 months! They are not in any particular order!

Noah and Jelly Bean snoozing on the couch!
What a comfy pillow!

Snuggle Bugs!
This is our good friend Joel, He was diagnosed with ALS in June of 09. Jelly Bean loved going to visit Joel in the nursing home and would climb in bed and snuggle with him everytime we were there! Jelly Bean knew where we were as soon as we'd pull in the parking lot! Joel told me the last time I got to visit him that Jelly Bean being there was such great therapy for him and made him feel better! Joel passed away earlier this month. RIP Joel!
He's so goofy! You can see his personality so much in this picture!
Snugglin' with his boy!
Look at me...I'm Jelly Bean!
CHEESE!
Shhh! Don't tell the Pastor, they are both sleeping in church!!

Hey Mom! Mom, mom!! Could you get up...I gotta potty!!

Hanging out at the ball game!!

Just me and my boy! My Best Friend!